refactor(s2n-quic-core): improve reassembler error handling (#2197) #4440

Job	Run time
env	4s
s2n-quic-qns (debug)	2m 4s
s2n-quic-qns (release)	7m 30s
bench	11m 2s
attack (udp)	5m 38s
h3spec (s2n-tls)	19s
h3spec (rustls)	15s
perf (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	2m 16s
perf (s2n-quic-null, s2n-quic-null)	1m 56s
interop (aioquic, s2n-quic)	17m 38s
interop (chrome, s2n-quic)	5m 36s
interop (go-x-net, s2n-quic)	11m 55s
interop (kwik, s2n-quic)	14m 13s
interop (lsquic, s2n-quic)	12m 35s
interop (msquic, s2n-quic)	16m 59s
interop (mvfst, s2n-quic)	11m 30s
interop (neqo, s2n-quic)	16m 45s
interop (ngtcp2, s2n-quic)	14m 15s
interop (picoquic, s2n-quic)	15m 48s
interop (quic-go, s2n-quic)	12m 30s
interop (quiche, s2n-quic)	16m 28s
interop (quinn, s2n-quic)	12m 59s
interop (s2n-quic, aioquic)	18m 4s
interop (s2n-quic, go-x-net)	11m 12s
interop (s2n-quic, haproxy)	11m 2s
interop (s2n-quic, kwik)	12m 26s
interop (s2n-quic, lsquic)	11m 36s
interop (s2n-quic, msquic)	11m 57s
interop (s2n-quic, mvfst)	6m 53s
interop (s2n-quic, neqo)	12m 44s
interop (s2n-quic, nginx)	10m 47s
interop (s2n-quic, ngtcp2)	12m 16s
interop (s2n-quic, picoquic)	12m 3s
interop (s2n-quic, quic-go)	11m 22s
interop (s2n-quic, quiche)	11m 31s
interop (s2n-quic, quinn)	10m 48s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic)	12m 45s
interop (s2n-quic, s2n-quic-rustls)	12m 42s
interop (s2n-quic, xquic)	5m 29s
interop (s2n-quic-rustls, s2n-quic)	12m 55s
interop (xquic, s2n-quic)	9m 33s
perf-report	17s
interop-report	0s
	7h 8m 37s

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