feat(design)!: add support for aria-controls to menu

[xelaint]

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What kind of change does this PR introduce?

[ ] Bugfix
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What is the current behavior?

Fixes: #2841

What is the new behavior?

Does this PR introduce a breaking change?

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Other information

[xelaint]

Doesn't work if using template ref to implement menu